Hi all, just thought perhaps others might have some useful advise for our situation.
To summarise: My stepdad has been falsely accused of rape from 20 or so years ago, from a girl we know and who had lived with us for a period of time as she had fallen out with her mother - who was my stepdad's ex.
2 police turned up at our door a few weeks ago, asked for my stepdad. My mum answered and told them he was at work (many miles away). They asked a few general questions, like how long we'd lived here, who lived here etc.. gave her paper with info on, said "it was nothing to worry about" and left. She phoned him at work to tell him what happened and that they asked for him to get in contact asap, either by phone or email. He rang them straight away.
They wouldn't tell him what it was about but needed him to attend a police station to be interviewed under caution and that "It's nothing to worry about.". He said if he is being interviewed under caution then it must be something to worry about. All they could say was there has be a allegation.
So roll on a couple weeks (of torment as we were all just going over and over it thinking what it was about. We all felt it had a high possibility of being linked to his ex as she was an alcoholic and a nasty piece of work) and today he went for the interview. Turns out he has been accused of rape (I think 3 times) by a girl (who is the daughter of his ex, but not his daughter) who had lived with us all those years ago for a period of time due to her falling out with her mother at the time. I think he said she'd also accused him of beating her up too.
My mum was a house-person during this time and home practically all the time. This girl was never alone with my stepdad. She even has accused him of rape at a time where apparently I was present, asleep in the back of his vehicle. This is absolute, total lies. I would have been about 12 or 13 at the time.
We had moved away from the area we used to live over 15 years ago now and not heard her or his ex for even longer than that. This is totally just out of the blue. We are all shocked. Why would she want to do this, what does she hope to gain out of it?
I believe they are now going to look into more records / info etc from his past at this point.
Just wondering if anyone can offer any advice or support <3
To summarise: My stepdad has been falsely accused of rape from 20 or so years ago, from a girl we know and who had lived with us for a period of time as she had fallen out with her mother - who was my stepdad's ex.
2 police turned up at our door a few weeks ago, asked for my stepdad. My mum answered and told them he was at work (many miles away). They asked a few general questions, like how long we'd lived here, who lived here etc.. gave her paper with info on, said "it was nothing to worry about" and left. She phoned him at work to tell him what happened and that they asked for him to get in contact asap, either by phone or email. He rang them straight away.
They wouldn't tell him what it was about but needed him to attend a police station to be interviewed under caution and that "It's nothing to worry about.". He said if he is being interviewed under caution then it must be something to worry about. All they could say was there has be a allegation.
So roll on a couple weeks (of torment as we were all just going over and over it thinking what it was about. We all felt it had a high possibility of being linked to his ex as she was an alcoholic and a nasty piece of work) and today he went for the interview. Turns out he has been accused of rape (I think 3 times) by a girl (who is the daughter of his ex, but not his daughter) who had lived with us all those years ago for a period of time due to her falling out with her mother at the time. I think he said she'd also accused him of beating her up too.
My mum was a house-person during this time and home practically all the time. This girl was never alone with my stepdad. She even has accused him of rape at a time where apparently I was present, asleep in the back of his vehicle. This is absolute, total lies. I would have been about 12 or 13 at the time.
We had moved away from the area we used to live over 15 years ago now and not heard her or his ex for even longer than that. This is totally just out of the blue. We are all shocked. Why would she want to do this, what does she hope to gain out of it?
I believe they are now going to look into more records / info etc from his past at this point.
Just wondering if anyone can offer any advice or support <3
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