Hi everyone this is my story..
I was with my partner for 3 years and we had a beautiful daughter together.
We never had any issues in our relationship- until i got a second job and she became unhappy and I believe fell out of love with me.
I had an argument with her step dad over arranging a secret birthday party for her 26th which got out of hand due to his wife **** stirring basically.
In the end he rang me up threatening me and i ended the call on him.
Afterwards I text him and told him I didn't want him seeing my daughter due to him threatening me.
He rang up my partner blew the whole plans about her surprise party and well I don't know what got said further to this day between them..
But about 48 hours later I picked my partner up from work and she seemed happy, everything was normal and she told me she was taking our daughter for a walk.
She even told me her sister was coming on Tuesday and so my mum made up the spare room for her.
She then text me 2 hours later saying she wanted to go on a break but then 1 hour after that changed her profile to single. I was upset she lied to me and asked why, tried to ring to check our daughter was safe nothing. She then blocked and deleted me.
I was horrified, baffled and upset.
The next morning at 4am things got worse.. 9 policeman came to my door and told me i was under arrest for 2 counts of rape and cohesion.
Eventually, when I got interviewed i was told my now ex partner was accusing me of this! She couldn't remember the dates or times and had no DNA but said I raped her in 2020 and at the start of 2021. It was all lies and rubbish. They then said I had 'cohesioned' her by not letting her see her family and friends- more rubbish as she saw her family and friends every week!
My solicitor told me it was a very very weak case and he'd be surprised if I was charged- the police seized my phone and bailed me.
He advised me to answer all their questions and I told them the truth that i believe her dad put her upto the fake allegations to subliminally send a message to me that he controls my daughter not me and his daughter.
I was set bail conditions stating to not contact the childs mum or go to her fathers address. I've kept to this- however she has tried to add me on a new snapchat which I blocked and deleted and reported to the police immediately.
I've told the police if i controlled her and raped her why is she trying to add me after these allegations and this isn't the behaviour of someone whos been raped and controlled but surprise surprise no response in 3 days from them!
I'm now at the point where i'm upset, raw from everything but more over can't understand why no due dilligence is taken by the police when they take on these cases.
My solicitor said he will write to the CPS when its dropped to ask for her to be charged for making a fake statement but from what ive read on here am i right that this is unlikely to even batter a eyelid from the police and my bail could drag out for months? am in the UK!
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