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I have read some of the posts on her about how people have been treated and have to count myself lucky in my story. I did a lot of work to get the police on my side. Rather than lots of phone calls I put lots of things in writing. So I wrote to my MP, Chief Constable of Surrey Police etc. At one point the DC assigned to my case was taking a long time to get in witness statements so once again I wrote to his DI explaining that I was worried about peoples memories fading and he was assigned another police officer to help with statement taking. As evidence started to build I made an agreement to speak to them every other Friday shift patterns allowing so I did not make a nuisance of myself. This worked and as evidence in my defence built they started to call me and update me on the progress. I only came off bail today 15th August 09. Meetings are being held as we speak with the CPS to create the charges and I will be with the police to sign a statement for this next week. Writing to your MP is a great thing to use as it filters all the way down the chain of command and you will be treated with respect. Last and most important thing is make sure you are not regarded as a pest.
Below is my story:-
I'm 38 years of age I met a girl 3 years ago and foolishly left my wife to be with her. We rented a house in Surrey for the last 2 years. The relationship was not working out as I found my partner had issues mainly an obsession with animals. I had tried to leave her on a number of occasions but was effectivly blackmailed because she had attemted suicide in the past.
My ex wife had been blocking my access to my children for the last 9 months and I had a date for court in June 09 so on the 6th April 09 told her it was over. The property cost £4000 per month so I told her that I would pay 2 months rent and leave my deposit on account for her so a total of £12,000. She wanted me to pay 6 months and I said I could not afford that she told me I would be sorry.
On the 10th April 09 she went in to the police station and accused me of rape but asked for nothing to be done until I moved out at the end of June. She came home cooked dinner and acted as if nothing happened. The following day was easter sunday and she even had me thank her mother for my easter egg. On the 28th April 09 I had her arrested for the theft of some laptops that held NHS data she was arrested and told not to return to the property. The next day she came in through a window and I called the police again the police spent 2 hours trying to get her to pack and leave the property was in my name and so were all the bills. She made an accusation of assualt and I was arrested this charge has been dropped that evening whilst I was at the police station she made a call to the charity crisis she got an injunction stopping me from going within 100 metres of my home. It was not until the 5th May 09 I was arrested for the allegation of rape.
The next thing she did was to start causing criminal damage my Porsche motor car was vandalised and an axe was put through the windscreen and every panel was keyed. I got an injunction to stop her selling my assetts and allow me to collect the Porsche, BMW motorbike and a collection of paintings. When i got to the property with the police the items were gone even with the court order. She had my ex wife hide the car and bike and these still have not been recovered. Every item I own has been destroyed and sold off. A number of people have come forward saying that no rape took place as she has told a number of people. She also had tried a different plot to have me arrested in Jan 09 as well and these people have also come forward. All my items were loaded in to her horse lorry with the assistance of my ex wife and taken away the police have executed a search warrant and found one items that was taken and sold to a local farmer. She also had her old boss charged and found guilty of ABH back in November 08 so the police are looking at this case also due to the similarities. They are now looking at fraud, 2 counts of perverting the course of justice, theft the list goes on.
Its believed that she has had someone charged with rape at University as well. I'm bailed on the rape until the 15th August and they have also set her bail date for the theft and fraud as the 25th August also. Her bail has been extended and the officers working on the case this week have been to the CPS to prepare her charge sheet.
I'm confident she will be charged from the conversations I have had so far. I have to admit I lost my home and job so this has been extremley stressful as I lost everything I own in the world at the same time but you must stay focused and be calm at all times with the police if you want to get them onside. If you write a letter to an MP be complimentry to your officer and never make it a complaint against them. When you have too much time to think take up a new activity I have been in the gym for 4 months now and look totaly different.
Last of all speak to people about it you did not do anything so talk about it to friends family the lot at this time friends are vital.
Good luck to you all,
Hedgecroft
Below is my story:-
I'm 38 years of age I met a girl 3 years ago and foolishly left my wife to be with her. We rented a house in Surrey for the last 2 years. The relationship was not working out as I found my partner had issues mainly an obsession with animals. I had tried to leave her on a number of occasions but was effectivly blackmailed because she had attemted suicide in the past.
My ex wife had been blocking my access to my children for the last 9 months and I had a date for court in June 09 so on the 6th April 09 told her it was over. The property cost £4000 per month so I told her that I would pay 2 months rent and leave my deposit on account for her so a total of £12,000. She wanted me to pay 6 months and I said I could not afford that she told me I would be sorry.
On the 10th April 09 she went in to the police station and accused me of rape but asked for nothing to be done until I moved out at the end of June. She came home cooked dinner and acted as if nothing happened. The following day was easter sunday and she even had me thank her mother for my easter egg. On the 28th April 09 I had her arrested for the theft of some laptops that held NHS data she was arrested and told not to return to the property. The next day she came in through a window and I called the police again the police spent 2 hours trying to get her to pack and leave the property was in my name and so were all the bills. She made an accusation of assualt and I was arrested this charge has been dropped that evening whilst I was at the police station she made a call to the charity crisis she got an injunction stopping me from going within 100 metres of my home. It was not until the 5th May 09 I was arrested for the allegation of rape.
The next thing she did was to start causing criminal damage my Porsche motor car was vandalised and an axe was put through the windscreen and every panel was keyed. I got an injunction to stop her selling my assetts and allow me to collect the Porsche, BMW motorbike and a collection of paintings. When i got to the property with the police the items were gone even with the court order. She had my ex wife hide the car and bike and these still have not been recovered. Every item I own has been destroyed and sold off. A number of people have come forward saying that no rape took place as she has told a number of people. She also had tried a different plot to have me arrested in Jan 09 as well and these people have also come forward. All my items were loaded in to her horse lorry with the assistance of my ex wife and taken away the police have executed a search warrant and found one items that was taken and sold to a local farmer. She also had her old boss charged and found guilty of ABH back in November 08 so the police are looking at this case also due to the similarities. They are now looking at fraud, 2 counts of perverting the course of justice, theft the list goes on.
Its believed that she has had someone charged with rape at University as well. I'm bailed on the rape until the 15th August and they have also set her bail date for the theft and fraud as the 25th August also. Her bail has been extended and the officers working on the case this week have been to the CPS to prepare her charge sheet.
I'm confident she will be charged from the conversations I have had so far. I have to admit I lost my home and job so this has been extremley stressful as I lost everything I own in the world at the same time but you must stay focused and be calm at all times with the police if you want to get them onside. If you write a letter to an MP be complimentry to your officer and never make it a complaint against them. When you have too much time to think take up a new activity I have been in the gym for 4 months now and look totaly different.
Last of all speak to people about it you did not do anything so talk about it to friends family the lot at this time friends are vital.
Good luck to you all,
Hedgecroft
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