To my fellow women.
I want to make very clear that I know rape happens and the following is in no way aimed at genuine Rape victims …Those ladies have my utmost support and respect.
I am nothing special, I am an ordinary women living my life as best I can.
I was taught right from wrong, good from bad, and that along the path of life I had a responsibility
to treat my fellow human beings with respect and empathy.
I was raised to respect myself and taught that everything we do is our own choice.and responsibility
I have lived this way for the past 52 years, but I am not sure I can do this in future. I no longer have respect for some women in this world.
There are some who deserve nothing but contempt.
These are the women who make false allegations of rape.
I have had the unfortunate experience of this happening to the man I have loved for the past 35 years. I have had to watch my husband become the shadow of the man he was, because a women decided on revenge, it could so easily happen to any man because a women regrets a sexual encounter.
Think on whilst you are shouting out your feminist spiel about the rights of women to do as they wish
and act as they like with no consequences. You have a responsibility for yourself when you are out and about enjoying you life …You have to accept that this world is a dangerous place and that you will make decisions you will later regret….That’s life after all.
Yes you have the right to drink to excess and wear your skimpy clothes and act like an idiot. Yes if you really want you can collapse in the gutter with no control of yourself. Feel free if that’s what floats your boat.
What you can’t do is make the decision to go home with the man you have “pulled” for a few more drinks and sex ..or let one thing lead to another ending up in bed……. then cry rape.
You know what could happen if you agree to go along with a man to either your place or his, alone. Wrong or right there has always been an ethos that to do so means you are both “up for it”
If you don’t know this then perhaps you should accept that you are not responsible enough to be out there in the grown up world at all.
Some things happen beyond our control, relationships come and go. Marriages begin and end.
You have to accept things which hurt you immensely, believe me, everything happens for a reason
and usually for the best. Yes you will feel bitter and angry, and you have the right to feel as you do.
We are back to respect for yourself and others, after all you once loved this man.
Revenge is never sweet ….
Remember when you decide to report him for rape…..he doesn’t deserve the horror you are causing him
Think how you would feel if a women did the same to a man you love, a man you know would never harm a women.
Its easy to cry rape….but its much easier not to be in a situation you may later regret.
Men are not to blame for the way you behave…..YOU ARE.
I want to make very clear that I know rape happens and the following is in no way aimed at genuine Rape victims …Those ladies have my utmost support and respect.
I am nothing special, I am an ordinary women living my life as best I can.
I was taught right from wrong, good from bad, and that along the path of life I had a responsibility
to treat my fellow human beings with respect and empathy.
I was raised to respect myself and taught that everything we do is our own choice.and responsibility
I have lived this way for the past 52 years, but I am not sure I can do this in future. I no longer have respect for some women in this world.
There are some who deserve nothing but contempt.
These are the women who make false allegations of rape.
I have had the unfortunate experience of this happening to the man I have loved for the past 35 years. I have had to watch my husband become the shadow of the man he was, because a women decided on revenge, it could so easily happen to any man because a women regrets a sexual encounter.
Think on whilst you are shouting out your feminist spiel about the rights of women to do as they wish
and act as they like with no consequences. You have a responsibility for yourself when you are out and about enjoying you life …You have to accept that this world is a dangerous place and that you will make decisions you will later regret….That’s life after all.
Yes you have the right to drink to excess and wear your skimpy clothes and act like an idiot. Yes if you really want you can collapse in the gutter with no control of yourself. Feel free if that’s what floats your boat.
What you can’t do is make the decision to go home with the man you have “pulled” for a few more drinks and sex ..or let one thing lead to another ending up in bed……. then cry rape.
You know what could happen if you agree to go along with a man to either your place or his, alone. Wrong or right there has always been an ethos that to do so means you are both “up for it”
If you don’t know this then perhaps you should accept that you are not responsible enough to be out there in the grown up world at all.
Some things happen beyond our control, relationships come and go. Marriages begin and end.
You have to accept things which hurt you immensely, believe me, everything happens for a reason
and usually for the best. Yes you will feel bitter and angry, and you have the right to feel as you do.
We are back to respect for yourself and others, after all you once loved this man.
Revenge is never sweet ….
Remember when you decide to report him for rape…..he doesn’t deserve the horror you are causing him
Think how you would feel if a women did the same to a man you love, a man you know would never harm a women.
Its easy to cry rape….but its much easier not to be in a situation you may later regret.
Men are not to blame for the way you behave…..YOU ARE.
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