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  • A message to women who Falsely Accuse

    To my fellow women.

    I want to make very clear that I know rape happens and the following is in no way aimed at genuine Rape victims …Those ladies have my utmost support and respect.

    I am nothing special, I am an ordinary women living my life as best I can.

    I was taught right from wrong, good from bad, and that along the path of life I had a responsibility
    to treat my fellow human beings with respect and empathy.
    I was raised to respect myself and taught that everything we do is our own choice.and responsibility
    I have lived this way for the past 52 years, but I am not sure I can do this in future. I no longer have respect for some women in this world.

    There are some who deserve nothing but contempt.
    These are the women who make false allegations of rape.

    I have had the unfortunate experience of this happening to the man I have loved for the past 35 years. I have had to watch my husband become the shadow of the man he was, because a women decided on revenge, it could so easily happen to any man because a women regrets a sexual encounter.

    Think on whilst you are shouting out your feminist spiel about the rights of women to do as they wish
    and act as they like with no consequences. You have a responsibility for yourself when you are out and about enjoying you life …You have to accept that this world is a dangerous place and that you will make decisions you will later regret….That’s life after all.

    Yes you have the right to drink to excess and wear your skimpy clothes and act like an idiot. Yes if you really want you can collapse in the gutter with no control of yourself. Feel free if that’s what floats your boat.

    What you can’t do is make the decision to go home with the man you have “pulled” for a few more drinks and sex ..or let one thing lead to another ending up in bed……. then cry rape.
    You know what could happen if you agree to go along with a man to either your place or his, alone. Wrong or right there has always been an ethos that to do so means you are both “up for it”
    If you don’t know this then perhaps you should accept that you are not responsible enough to be out there in the grown up world at all.

    Some things happen beyond our control, relationships come and go. Marriages begin and end.
    You have to accept things which hurt you immensely, believe me, everything happens for a reason
    and usually for the best. Yes you will feel bitter and angry, and you have the right to feel as you do.
    We are back to respect for yourself and others, after all you once loved this man.
    Revenge is never sweet ….

    Remember when you decide to report him for rape…..he doesn’t deserve the horror you are causing him
    Think how you would feel if a women did the same to a man you love, a man you know would never harm a women.

    Its easy to cry rape….but its much easier not to be in a situation you may later regret.
    Men are not to blame for the way you behave…..YOU ARE.
    Together We Can Beat This Hell

  • #2
    There is only one thing worse than a rapist or child abuser, people who pretend to of been raped or abused.

    They really are scum and should be sentenced as such!!!!!
    Wonder Woman has a lie detecting lasso and will fight for justice

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    • #3
      A beautifully written, heartfelt message LP - and should be sent as well to men who rape other men/boys, and to women who FA other women....
      "Only love can light the mirror of your soul" - Chris de Burgh

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      • #4
        I agree totally Myhome...This is one of many things I have written since hubby was falsely accused.
        I wrote it to other women because that's my personal experience. I know though its the same who ever
        is falsely accusing and I send the same message to them all.

        Wonderwomen2012. I can understand your sentiments entirely. LP
        Together We Can Beat This Hell

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        • #5
          Yes you have the right to drink to excess and wear your skimpy clothes and act like an idiot. Yes if you really want you can collapse in the gutter with no control of yourself. Feel free if that’s what floats your boat.

          What you can’t do is make the decision to go home with the man you have “pulled” for a few more drinks and sex ..or let one thing lead to another ending up in bed……. then cry rape.
          You know what could happen if you agree to go along with a man to either your place or his, alone. Wrong or right there has always been an ethos that to do so means you are both “up for it”
          If you don’t know this then perhaps you should accept that you are not responsible enough to be out there in the grown up world at all..[/QUOTE]


          Excellent LP - are you going to try and have it published as an 'open letter'?
          I could never have got my thoughts sorted enough to write this but you voice many of my own feelings and I'm vry grateful for you doing so.

          Had things gone differently, my lovely,kind gentle 21 yr old boy would be starting a 4 year stretch in HMP and his father and I would be having to move back to GB so that we could visit him regularly - all because a young woman could not be honest enough to take responsibility for her own actions while she and only she got herself so drunk she 'couldn't remember anything' the next morning. And she, her friend, the police, the CPS ASSUMED she must have been sexually assaulted even there was NO evidence.

          People need to be made to take responsibility for their own actions under the influence, male and female.

          Booze abuse, skimpy clothes and a cry wolf attitude make a highly dangerous cocktail.

          Guys, you also need to modify your behaviour and expectations( I guess I'm preaching to the converted on here)

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          • #6
            Hi Whatsgoingon, I hadn't really thought of doing anything with it apart from share it with everyone here.
            To be honest I wouldn't know where to send it ! LP
            Together We Can Beat This Hell

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            • #7
              The Mail online seems to have regular articles on false accusations:

              http://www.dailymail.co.uk/home/index.html

              http://www.grassrootsfeminism.net/cms/category/10/96

              or any of the other daily rags

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              • #8
                As suggested by WGO I have submitted this to several newspapers, Already I have been asked if
                we would tell our 'story' by one journalist.
                The answer to that is no..things are still raw
                A Not Guilty,NFA or No Crime to Answer doesn't mean everything's better, It doesn't change the
                fact that you were in the hell hole. That will never go away for my hubby.
                I just hope that my letter makes just one falsely accusing women think before she picks up the phone,
                at least then one poor man or woman won't have to live the nightmare we do. LP
                Together We Can Beat This Hell

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                • #9
                  I think that's brilliant. An open letter doesn't have to be followed ( or preceeded) by a 'story'. It stands up in it's own right! I would have thought that any paper willing to publicise the cause of the falsley accused could see that. Of course... they do always try to make the most of a good thing.

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                  • #10
                    Its not surprising that the feminists have been giving me grief on some forums either !
                    Seems they know better than us how falsely accused people feel.
                    There telling the wrong one here though and I won't keep quiet to suit them. LP
                    Together We Can Beat This Hell

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                    • #11
                      Bullies only see one point of view - theirs!

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                      • #12
                        I don't see why we refer to these men hating bitter and twisted women as feminists in any case. Feminists, as I believe, stand for women's rights ( and have been invaluable to gaining equality in many fields)- not depriving others of their rights and using bullying tactics to create wrongs.
                        It would be like a trade unionist stiring up hatred against a said community in order to ensure their unemployment.

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                        • #13
                          I agree with you ther WGO !...Brainwashed women led by brainwashed women. LP
                          Together We Can Beat This Hell

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                          • #14
                            please can we remember that men make false claims too - just in the point of fairness.
                            And God promised men that good and obedient wives would be found in all corners of the world. Then made the world round .... and laughed and laughed and laughed ..

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                            • #15
                              Thanks for reminding us... but do they do it under imaginary umbrella of 'masculinism?'

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