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Hi im a bit worried about an incident and just wondered of there was any case or what would happen...
Basically a few months ago i met a girl chatted through text got along and decided to go out on a date, it was great had dinner, drinks chatted and got along really well. It then came to the end of the night and time to go home but we were enjoying each others company so much i decided to ask her if she wanted to come back to mine... In the end deciding she did so we both caught a taxi back to mine. We go in watch a film, talked more and ended up sharing my bed which lead to hugging, kissing and even her giving me head (no sex as in sleeping together).
The next day we spent the whole day together in bed and even my flat mate saw us happy and her content in my company around the flat, that evening we went out and i took her home. Once being at home I text her saying what a great time it was and will see her again soon, i also added i wasnt looking for anything too serious at the moment but in the future who knows.
SINCE THEN ITS ALL CHANGED
The following day i had her friends on the phone calling me an arsehole and how i used her! by making her feel special getting what i wanted and then dropping her! I admit maybe i should have told her i didnt want anything serious but there is no way i used her... she wanted to be there as much as me.
A few nights later i get a text from her and she trying to take her life! To cut along story short that night was horrible i felt terrible like it was my fault but in the end she was found in time and thanks to me (which she has thanked me for) i said to her then i think it would be better if we didnt have any contact with each other but she wanted me to stay as a friend.... So i did (mistake i know) we even met up to see if a friendship could work, it was fine and she even talked about other guys.
Anyway i have now recently started to see someone else so my contact with her isnt as much and she has found out (not sure how) she asked me to ring her so i did thinking she wanted to talk about some guy or something but i was shocked, she now said she could go to the police to report me and get me done for rape!! as soon as she said that i started to record the phone conversation because i panicked.
In this conversation she wanted to know why we didn't work out on which i repled 'because of that night she tried to take her life' and she said how she knows its her fault but hates the way ive treated her? and also how she still likes me. I spoke to her trying to tell her it wasnt her fault and it was all to much to soon for me.
I also checked my phone and i have all our texts and emails to each other too of that night and after it (us trying to be 'friends'). I just want to know what is going on! Im trying to move on but all i can think about is if she did take this to the police... what would happen? :s
Thanks and happy holidays
Basically a few months ago i met a girl chatted through text got along and decided to go out on a date, it was great had dinner, drinks chatted and got along really well. It then came to the end of the night and time to go home but we were enjoying each others company so much i decided to ask her if she wanted to come back to mine... In the end deciding she did so we both caught a taxi back to mine. We go in watch a film, talked more and ended up sharing my bed which lead to hugging, kissing and even her giving me head (no sex as in sleeping together).
The next day we spent the whole day together in bed and even my flat mate saw us happy and her content in my company around the flat, that evening we went out and i took her home. Once being at home I text her saying what a great time it was and will see her again soon, i also added i wasnt looking for anything too serious at the moment but in the future who knows.
SINCE THEN ITS ALL CHANGED
The following day i had her friends on the phone calling me an arsehole and how i used her! by making her feel special getting what i wanted and then dropping her! I admit maybe i should have told her i didnt want anything serious but there is no way i used her... she wanted to be there as much as me.
A few nights later i get a text from her and she trying to take her life! To cut along story short that night was horrible i felt terrible like it was my fault but in the end she was found in time and thanks to me (which she has thanked me for) i said to her then i think it would be better if we didnt have any contact with each other but she wanted me to stay as a friend.... So i did (mistake i know) we even met up to see if a friendship could work, it was fine and she even talked about other guys.
Anyway i have now recently started to see someone else so my contact with her isnt as much and she has found out (not sure how) she asked me to ring her so i did thinking she wanted to talk about some guy or something but i was shocked, she now said she could go to the police to report me and get me done for rape!! as soon as she said that i started to record the phone conversation because i panicked.
In this conversation she wanted to know why we didn't work out on which i repled 'because of that night she tried to take her life' and she said how she knows its her fault but hates the way ive treated her? and also how she still likes me. I spoke to her trying to tell her it wasnt her fault and it was all to much to soon for me.
I also checked my phone and i have all our texts and emails to each other too of that night and after it (us trying to be 'friends'). I just want to know what is going on! Im trying to move on but all i can think about is if she did take this to the police... what would happen? :s
Thanks and happy holidays
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