Need some advice please

[RFLH]

and that's the turning point - the only path is to the future now and you'll heal and be fine again.

[blackadder]

counselling!

I have been raped twice in my teens many years ago, and with counselling managed to move on!
As a friend of someone falsely accused of rape, I think that the trauma for them being drawn into the legal process and having their name dragged through the mud was every bit as traumatic as what I went through when I was raped!
Only thing is that he was never offered counselling.
He was never charged, as he was actually with me when it was supposed to happen.
She had been caught on camera at a party having sex with someone and tried to say she'd been raped when her boyfriend found out.
My friend and I weren't even at the party.
She was obviously so wasted that she didn't even remember who she'd slept with.
This has destroyed my friend's trust in women apart from me and his mum.
I'm helping him rebuild his life now.
I can't understand why these women do this!
Try and get counseling to save what you have together.

[Saffron]

Thanks Blackadder and welcome to the forum. I would be interested to hear your story when you feel ready.

[RFLH]

Hi Blackadder, welcome and I'm pleased that your friend has you - everyone needs someone to lean on at times like this.