my 9 year old daughter has accused my partner of 18mnths of sexually abusing her, ive known him and his family for 30 years, hes 38, im 37 hes also my brothers best friend..we got together after my 15 yr marriage ended, and he was coming out of a relationship, according to all who know him hes always held a torch for me, as we were 'first loves' things moved pretty quickly as we have known each other so long, he moved in with me and my children within 3 months of us getting back in touch, and we had our baby in august, he is the love of my life, my bestfriend...i cant believe he would do this to us or my daughter.
he says hes done nothing, we rang social services together and he moved out as advised..she has been interviewed and given a medical, and a friend of hers says she witnessed my partner on my daughter in our bed when she stayed over once...he was arrested and bailed, and isnt allowed to see or speak to any of the children including our baby...
he has been sacked as his company recieved malicious phone calls, and we have had phone calls to the police and social services saying he is still in contact with the children...he is not...
my question is...do children lie...why do they lie....social services believe her, her dad believes her, but no one that knows my partner believs he is capable of doing this, or that he would risk loosing everything........
please help
Lx
he says hes done nothing, we rang social services together and he moved out as advised..she has been interviewed and given a medical, and a friend of hers says she witnessed my partner on my daughter in our bed when she stayed over once...he was arrested and bailed, and isnt allowed to see or speak to any of the children including our baby...
he has been sacked as his company recieved malicious phone calls, and we have had phone calls to the police and social services saying he is still in contact with the children...he is not...
my question is...do children lie...why do they lie....social services believe her, her dad believes her, but no one that knows my partner believs he is capable of doing this, or that he would risk loosing everything........
please help
Lx
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