This is a topic covering a lot of things mentioned in other forums.It has a message at the end, but a few things need to spoken about before that message is reached.I do not wish to enter into any more debates, nor do i wish to see any more threads about who suffers the worst on the forum.I would love to see everyone joining together, against the real probelm , and that is the rapists.If they didnt rape anyone there would be no victims, or anyone to accuse anyone of rape.I know that , this is unrealistic right now, but the more we continue to fight against the rapists, the less chance of our expereinces happening to the next generation.
Let me make this very clear. I am in the UK i do not know where you are in the world, but i can assure you from speaking with members of the Sapphire Unit, who form part of the London Metroploitan Police, that victims do not get a big fat pay out.There seems to be much illusion about the compensation system.There is no big fat pay out, or a big fat cheque, or a money pot either.Any compensation awarded (and most victims dont ask for money for there injuries as it feels like thye have been paid to be raped) BARELY covers the time taken off work to recover.Even if a person is crying wolf (which i beleive is rare and dont wish to enter into any debate about ) the compensation awarded would not even amount to a half a years time taken off work.
There is a lot of illusion about the compensation system, i know personally of a few people who have received compensation (genuine survivors by the way) and the money received was insulting (and thats a mild word compared to the ones used by the survivors)
Lets get real here.There is no fat money pot.And you cannot go out and accuse anyone of a crime if you wanted to either.
For a crime to go to court there needs to be strong evidence/reason that is in the publics best interests, when in court a vigourous trial where many qualified leagl members examine evidence and listen to the accounts.A jury of 12 then decide on the verdict.
People cant just walk into a court and convince everyone that a person has raped them, it has been made out that this goes on on numerous occasions.Rape is the most under reported crime going.
Lest move away from this thread as it is not constructive.People have many opinions.
I base mine from conversations i have had with rape oraginsations such as Rape Crisis Units,The Sapphire Unit,Metropolitan Police,Abcvictimsbreakfree (my group with over 130 genuine survivors who have been through the courts)My own expereince of the courts and prison system, and UK Crime Statistics published by the Met.Police,Coversations with Solicitors, and Youth Justice Workers.
Lets stop this thread about those falsly accusing others get fat cheques as it is false.There is no eveidence,statistics or proof that backs up these claims Indeed i have even asked some of the above orgainsations if it were true. (no)
I have already mentioned i would not enter into a debate like this but i feel with the misleading information on this board, that if there were genenuine survivors reading this (and i know thye do) they may feel put off about reporting a crime, or awkward about there right to apply for compensation .
I recently also spoke to someone within the prison system to see who on the rapists wing has been falsy accused, or is innocent or claiming to be innocent.
Of 30 inmates (this was also a young offenders institute, im yet to make contact with anyone from a prison with over 25's)
2 people claimed to be falsy accused/innocent.
Our police do a remarkable job in locking up offenders, many of who are guilty.
And i give contiinuing praise to organisations such as Womens Aid and The Sapphire Unit who deal with thousands and thousands of calls each year.
Yes there are some people in prison who are innocent, and there are people walking the streets who are guilty.We all know this, so lets not keep dragging this out.
I also would like to say to those who are falsly accused or rape, i wholeheartdly feel that if thye can prove their innocence such as a member on here known as Ashley (and i take my hat off to him for all the courgae he has shown in sharing his story and my heart truly goes out to him as i feel that he is an innocnet man, who i hope will keep reaching for the moon, and recover)
Then the women/men doing the false accusations should also have some form of punishment, and psychiatric assessments.Rape is not something you would want people to know happened to you.To say it has happened when it hasnt is making a mockery out of genuine victims.
Those fasly accused seems to be a hot topic here on these boards, but its going round and round in circles. I think that a good number of you could quite easily get together, and join with those who have genunly been raped to put a stop to rape full stop.No one is going to get anywhere if thye keep saying so and soo is suffering worse.At the end of the day we all wish that rape would go away, then all parties involved would be able to recover.
This is an unrealistic vision right now, but if we all team up, those raped and those falsy accused of rape (as Ashley as pointed out we both seem to suffer PTSD,Suicidal Thoughts,Depression ect) and join a campaign to put a stop to rape full stop, then we may all get closer to the same goal.That no man or women is raped, and no man or women is falsy accused of rape.
Like i said at the moment that is unrealistic but the more pe9ople who speak out, the more people who shout, the louder the shouts will be heard by those in places of power.
We all need to put our collective energies into stopping rape, full stop.
We are all hurting. We have established that.
Lets put that hurt into something useful.
Snoopy
Originally posted by maria@28th September 2004 - 10:33 AM
THE MONEY POT is ..... what falsely accusing people get once they have got there conviction regardless to the falsey accused being innocent either being told to take a plea bargain when they are innocent and the so called victims get paid out from the state NICE BIG PAY OUT
THE MONEY POT is ..... what falsely accusing people get once they have got there conviction regardless to the falsey accused being innocent either being told to take a plea bargain when they are innocent and the so called victims get paid out from the state NICE BIG PAY OUT
Let me make this very clear. I am in the UK i do not know where you are in the world, but i can assure you from speaking with members of the Sapphire Unit, who form part of the London Metroploitan Police, that victims do not get a big fat pay out.There seems to be much illusion about the compensation system.There is no big fat pay out, or a big fat cheque, or a money pot either.Any compensation awarded (and most victims dont ask for money for there injuries as it feels like thye have been paid to be raped) BARELY covers the time taken off work to recover.Even if a person is crying wolf (which i beleive is rare and dont wish to enter into any debate about ) the compensation awarded would not even amount to a half a years time taken off work.
There is a lot of illusion about the compensation system, i know personally of a few people who have received compensation (genuine survivors by the way) and the money received was insulting (and thats a mild word compared to the ones used by the survivors)
Lets get real here.There is no fat money pot.And you cannot go out and accuse anyone of a crime if you wanted to either.
For a crime to go to court there needs to be strong evidence/reason that is in the publics best interests, when in court a vigourous trial where many qualified leagl members examine evidence and listen to the accounts.A jury of 12 then decide on the verdict.
People cant just walk into a court and convince everyone that a person has raped them, it has been made out that this goes on on numerous occasions.Rape is the most under reported crime going.
Lest move away from this thread as it is not constructive.People have many opinions.
I base mine from conversations i have had with rape oraginsations such as Rape Crisis Units,The Sapphire Unit,Metropolitan Police,Abcvictimsbreakfree (my group with over 130 genuine survivors who have been through the courts)My own expereince of the courts and prison system, and UK Crime Statistics published by the Met.Police,Coversations with Solicitors, and Youth Justice Workers.
Lets stop this thread about those falsly accusing others get fat cheques as it is false.There is no eveidence,statistics or proof that backs up these claims Indeed i have even asked some of the above orgainsations if it were true. (no)
I have already mentioned i would not enter into a debate like this but i feel with the misleading information on this board, that if there were genenuine survivors reading this (and i know thye do) they may feel put off about reporting a crime, or awkward about there right to apply for compensation .
I recently also spoke to someone within the prison system to see who on the rapists wing has been falsy accused, or is innocent or claiming to be innocent.
Of 30 inmates (this was also a young offenders institute, im yet to make contact with anyone from a prison with over 25's)
2 people claimed to be falsy accused/innocent.
Our police do a remarkable job in locking up offenders, many of who are guilty.
And i give contiinuing praise to organisations such as Womens Aid and The Sapphire Unit who deal with thousands and thousands of calls each year.
Yes there are some people in prison who are innocent, and there are people walking the streets who are guilty.We all know this, so lets not keep dragging this out.
I also would like to say to those who are falsly accused or rape, i wholeheartdly feel that if thye can prove their innocence such as a member on here known as Ashley (and i take my hat off to him for all the courgae he has shown in sharing his story and my heart truly goes out to him as i feel that he is an innocnet man, who i hope will keep reaching for the moon, and recover)
Then the women/men doing the false accusations should also have some form of punishment, and psychiatric assessments.Rape is not something you would want people to know happened to you.To say it has happened when it hasnt is making a mockery out of genuine victims.
Those fasly accused seems to be a hot topic here on these boards, but its going round and round in circles. I think that a good number of you could quite easily get together, and join with those who have genunly been raped to put a stop to rape full stop.No one is going to get anywhere if thye keep saying so and soo is suffering worse.At the end of the day we all wish that rape would go away, then all parties involved would be able to recover.
This is an unrealistic vision right now, but if we all team up, those raped and those falsy accused of rape (as Ashley as pointed out we both seem to suffer PTSD,Suicidal Thoughts,Depression ect) and join a campaign to put a stop to rape full stop, then we may all get closer to the same goal.That no man or women is raped, and no man or women is falsy accused of rape.
Like i said at the moment that is unrealistic but the more pe9ople who speak out, the more people who shout, the louder the shouts will be heard by those in places of power.
We all need to put our collective energies into stopping rape, full stop.
We are all hurting. We have established that.
Lets put that hurt into something useful.
Snoopy
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