We have been married for 7 yrs. He is honestly a good man. He is my best friend and the only person I have ever felt truely safe with. BUT.... He slips into these strong depressions and gets so spiteful and self destructive. When he goes into one, he picks one person out to catch his wrath. ( only verbal never physical) Usually that person is me. No matter what I do during that time it is not only wrong, but unforgivable. I have 3 daughters from my first marriage and we have to walk on egg shells to prevent getting our heads chopped off. He gets something in his head and there is no way you can convince him otherwise regaurdless of what proof you bring to the table. For example. I work at chemcal plant and work shift work, he will swear I am seeing someone there. I have never cheated on him. His ex wife did repeatedly so i am paying for her crimes. He refuses to get any help because "nothing is wrong with him" When he comes out of this depression he is so appologetic and claims he don't know why I stay with a man that treats me so bad. I do love him, but know how many times I can ride in this rodeo anymore. I am getting worn out. Any suggestion would be appriciated.
Thanx
Thanx
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