I have been married for a year and a half. We are both 26 years old. I had back surgery a month ago and it was pretty serious, so I am obviously somewhat helpless. My wife has been a trooper through the whole situation until last week. We had a plumbing problem, she freaks, yells at me because the plumbing is messed up and runs to her mother's house (which is something she always does, runs to her mother when there's a problem). She wakes me up last weekend to "talk." I'm ok with that. She starts ranting about how she hates my family and how they hate her (my family loves my wife), and how all I do is sit around and feel sorry for myself because of this back surgery and that I don't do anything around the house (HELLO?? I JUST HAD BACK SURGERY!!!
, then she says that I haven't been happy since we got married. Ok, at this point, im stunned. I have no clue where any of this came from. I understand she has been under stress from having to take care of me, but what the hell is this???? So we talk things out, sort of, and get back on somewhat decent terms. So she calls me the next day and says that she is going to the mall with her mom. I jokingly ask "what are you going to get me at the mall?" Snappy response of "NOTHING, WE"RE BROKE!!!!!!" funny, she came home with 2 , count em, 2 pairs of shoes that night. And today she calls me and wants me to go to the movies, the movies are an hour away and I am unable to go with my back the way it is. So now she's going with a guy "friend" of hours from college. I keep thinking to myself, screw it just leave her, you don't need this, but I want things to be great like they were before. I NEED HELP!!!

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