I recently admitted to my wife that I had an affair with her best friend, after she received an anonymous letter detailing the affair.
We are going to councelling (starting tonight), and i suppose i'm afraid of what the future holds. I am so scared I will lose her. She is the best thing that has ever happened in my life.
I never ever meant to hurt her. I love her so much, and I cant help feeling scared that she will ask me to leave.
I know that what I am saying sounds really wimpy, and pathetic. I deserve everything that is coming to me.
I just dont know what to say to her. She is asking me stuff about the affair, and i dont know whether to answer or not. I feel guilty for not answering, and she takes the silence as a yes answer, and yet if i do answer her questions, things get worse between us.
I know she wants to know why..........but i dont have any answers.
Her friend and i had always had a close, flirty friendship. But we overstepped the lines, and took it that step further. The secret was kept for nearly 2 years, and now my wife doesnt trust me at all. She feels that everything i say is a lie.
Does anyone have any advice for me, as to how I can save my marriage ?
We are going to councelling (starting tonight), and i suppose i'm afraid of what the future holds. I am so scared I will lose her. She is the best thing that has ever happened in my life.
I never ever meant to hurt her. I love her so much, and I cant help feeling scared that she will ask me to leave.
I know that what I am saying sounds really wimpy, and pathetic. I deserve everything that is coming to me.
I just dont know what to say to her. She is asking me stuff about the affair, and i dont know whether to answer or not. I feel guilty for not answering, and she takes the silence as a yes answer, and yet if i do answer her questions, things get worse between us.
I know she wants to know why..........but i dont have any answers.
Her friend and i had always had a close, flirty friendship. But we overstepped the lines, and took it that step further. The secret was kept for nearly 2 years, and now my wife doesnt trust me at all. She feels that everything i say is a lie.
Does anyone have any advice for me, as to how I can save my marriage ?
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