Been here before , procedure or lack of

[sp123]

Hi all iv'e posted here before under a different name ,i keep forgetting my password etc .Anyway i was asked to go for an interview 2 years and 6 months ago ,and since then i have heard nothing at all.I have tried to plough on doing various normal things but i keep sliding back into the whats the point mode (im an half glass empty person).Luckily my wife stands by me and the family .It's ok them saying though no proof you would have heard something .Not the case .until i do there is no resolve .failed to mention was a voluntary interview under caution for an historic matter .means the same as being arrested and dragged in to me.Iv'e forgotten what i used to feel like before all this .

[Casehardened]

Hi, I'm glad you reappeared as a new member has just started down the road you are on and I depressed him by telling him how long you had been on it!

Here is his thread in case you want to commiserate with him:


http://www.daftmoo.org.uk/mooforum/s...sed-Any-advice

[Rights Fighter]

Social networking at it's best - and encouraging support too! I am impressed!

[TBG1]

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Hi sp123. Sorry to hear your plight.

I am truly amazed at the length of your ordeal. Please can you tell us what, if any, contact you have had with the authorities since your interview? Have you contacted the officer in charge to find out the current "state of play"?

Whilst I can identify with the way you feel, I have only just "stepped on the path" in comparison.

It's worth mentioning that you've made it this far...after this long. You should marvel at your own strength and resolve. Nearly 3 years and you're still standing. Stay strong.

[Casehardened]

Social networking at it's best - and encouraging support too! I am impressed!

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[sp123]

Hi sp123. Sorry to hear your plight.

I am truly amazed at the length of your ordeal. Please can you tell us what, if any, contact you have had with the authorities since your interview? Have you contacted the officer in charge to find out the current "state of play"?

Whilst I can identify with the way you feel, I have only just "stepped on the path" in comparison.

It's worth mentioning that you've made it this far...after this long. You should marvel at your own strength and resolve. Nearly 3 years and you're still standing. Stay strong.

.Hope im doing this correctly.Hi regarding contact m y solicitor said he would be in touch in 2 months months time to keep me appraised of the situation,so that should have been april 2013 ,heard nothing.As for contacting the officer in charge i hav'nt done .I have changed address since this started and i sometimes wonder if they have sent a letter to my old address(unlikely but just a thought).

[Rights Fighter]

At this stage the solicitor isn't paid to do anything, so many won't.

You say that you have changed your address but don't say if you notified the police.

Contact the OIC and tell them of your change of address, if you have not already done so, and ask for an update.

[sp123]

At this stage the solicitor isn't paid to do anything, so many won't.

You say that you have changed your address but don't say if you notified the police.

Contact the OIC and tell them of your change of address, if you have not already done so, and ask for an update.

Understood about the solicitor .No i didn't call the OIC and tell them of a change of address ,i just presumed they would know this seeing as they found me in the first place (i'm still on the same phone number which is how contact was made ).As for calling them i'm very nervous about doing so (prodding the sleeping bear etc) the other half of me tells me it's the best thing to do.On one hand(family members ) i have 1 person telling me to ring them to find out and on the other saying don't it makes you look guilty.I used to be more decisive about things before all this.

[Rights Fighter]

They rang you the first time and didn't visit you? Plus I assume you were registered (electoral register) at your last address. Or the complainant / their family or supporters gave them your last address.

So how are they to know you've moved, unless you have told them?

If you don't update them you are more likely to "look guilty" as it will look like you are avoiding them.

I'm also sure that after being interviewed they would have told you that if you were to move, that you should let them know.

If you move again or change your phone number you really should tell them.