hi everyone, I stumbled across this site and how I wish I'd found it before .I'm speechless to be honest. I cant believe there are so many people who are going through the same devastation of false accusations as we have.
We have spent the last 18 month trying to gather some sort of defence ,the only witnesses being myself and my 15yr old daughter, only to be advised on the morning of the trial that he didnt have a chance an persuaded him to plead guilty . They said it was the only way he had a chance of seeing us again . To be honest the solicitor and barrister have been totally incompetent and I felt as if he wasnt believed .
Im devastated that hes saying hes guilty to something that we know is a pack of evil lies- concocted through jealousy and money.
God- how I wish Id found you all earlier it could have made so much difference , but, unfortunately he is sentenced to morrow.
Theres so much I feel I want to explain. 18 months of feelings all
bottled up with no one to talk to let alone people who are actually going through the same thing.
My partner is 70 yrs old and 18mnth ago was charged with rape, attemped rapes and sexual assaults by 2 of his granddaughters(who are teenagers) that he had been doing over a period of years but stopped 3yr ago when he begaN a relationship with me. Apparently, there was concern that the case wouldnt stand so just for good measure up pops one of his daughters with more historic rape charges-which really was the spanner in the works.
He has a lot of medical issues an they even accepted that he would have had erection problems but they said they were limited to what they could question the girls about.Our whole defence depended on that- so everything fell apart an all that is left is the bloody plea bargaining - con.,and the disgusting thought of having to make up a story to make it look as if it really happened.
so come tomorrow instead of lookin at guilty or innocent we are looking at how long. Sitting here like the last supper not knowing how you get through something like this. Would be so grateful for some "friends " or advice . I feel like a leper as guilty as him for sticking by him. So grateful that I found yous -at last i have been able to speak openly about it. thank you and good luck to all who are going through anything like this
We have spent the last 18 month trying to gather some sort of defence ,the only witnesses being myself and my 15yr old daughter, only to be advised on the morning of the trial that he didnt have a chance an persuaded him to plead guilty . They said it was the only way he had a chance of seeing us again . To be honest the solicitor and barrister have been totally incompetent and I felt as if he wasnt believed .
Im devastated that hes saying hes guilty to something that we know is a pack of evil lies- concocted through jealousy and money.
God- how I wish Id found you all earlier it could have made so much difference , but, unfortunately he is sentenced to morrow.
Theres so much I feel I want to explain. 18 months of feelings all
bottled up with no one to talk to let alone people who are actually going through the same thing.
My partner is 70 yrs old and 18mnth ago was charged with rape, attemped rapes and sexual assaults by 2 of his granddaughters(who are teenagers) that he had been doing over a period of years but stopped 3yr ago when he begaN a relationship with me. Apparently, there was concern that the case wouldnt stand so just for good measure up pops one of his daughters with more historic rape charges-which really was the spanner in the works.
He has a lot of medical issues an they even accepted that he would have had erection problems but they said they were limited to what they could question the girls about.Our whole defence depended on that- so everything fell apart an all that is left is the bloody plea bargaining - con.,and the disgusting thought of having to make up a story to make it look as if it really happened.
so come tomorrow instead of lookin at guilty or innocent we are looking at how long. Sitting here like the last supper not knowing how you get through something like this. Would be so grateful for some "friends " or advice . I feel like a leper as guilty as him for sticking by him. So grateful that I found yous -at last i have been able to speak openly about it. thank you and good luck to all who are going through anything like this
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