My nightmare ended last week when the OIC phoned me and told me that I did not need to answer to my bail the next day as the allegation of historical sexual abuse against me had been reviewed by a Inspector and marked NFA.
However, as well as utmost relief my thoughts soon turned to the fact that I now feel that I am the victim.
Here are my thoughts:
I have been arrested, my personal info i.e fingerprints DNA etc. put on PNC file ,imprisoned, bailed.
Members of my family have been questioned and upset.
My immediate thoughts were to try to get my records erased.
I was then that I found this Forum (I wish I had found it months ago).
I have read Threads telling me how difficult it is to get records erased but also that the NFA decision can be appealed by the accusor.
So, after a few days of wrestling with the 'wrongful arrest' and 'victim' scenarios and bearing in mind the accusor's
right of appeal to the NFA decision I am now thinking it may be best for me to let the records stand.
This has a number of effects:
Negative
1. It leaves me still feeling aggrieved.
Positive
1. The feeling will, I hope, pass with time
2. Should there be an appeal the records will show why the NFA decision was made
3. If there are further allegations from the same (unbalanced and vengeful) source the records are there for reference
4. In a way it doesn't matter as I am retired and never likely to need a DBS
I would be grateful for members reactions/advice on these thoughts.
However, as well as utmost relief my thoughts soon turned to the fact that I now feel that I am the victim.
Here are my thoughts:
I have been arrested, my personal info i.e fingerprints DNA etc. put on PNC file ,imprisoned, bailed.
Members of my family have been questioned and upset.
My immediate thoughts were to try to get my records erased.
I was then that I found this Forum (I wish I had found it months ago).
I have read Threads telling me how difficult it is to get records erased but also that the NFA decision can be appealed by the accusor.
So, after a few days of wrestling with the 'wrongful arrest' and 'victim' scenarios and bearing in mind the accusor's
right of appeal to the NFA decision I am now thinking it may be best for me to let the records stand.
This has a number of effects:
Negative
1. It leaves me still feeling aggrieved.
Positive
1. The feeling will, I hope, pass with time
2. Should there be an appeal the records will show why the NFA decision was made
3. If there are further allegations from the same (unbalanced and vengeful) source the records are there for reference
4. In a way it doesn't matter as I am retired and never likely to need a DBS
I would be grateful for members reactions/advice on these thoughts.
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