Hi all,
I thought recently of the help & support that I received from this forum while going through my ordeal so though I would come back and give everybody an update & hopefully some inspiration.
I'm not going to go through all the details of the case again, just look at my old threads/posts to do that.
Unfortunately the strain of the allegation caused me and my partner to split up after 4 years - I became addicted to drugs and would do anything to take them behind her back, mainly weed but other stuff too, it kind of numbed me after such a traumatic time. I always though that when it was all over I would see things in a different light and everything would be OK but it didn't work like that. The battle continued after the trial and I think I suffered severe depression/PTSD but I never went to the doctors. My GF tried to support me but eventually my behaviour drove her away which I can understand.
We split up in May 2013 and I decided to get a clean break and move to Australia, something I had always dreamed of doing and I did it in June 2013. Despite still battling my emotions on and off I got a good job and got off the drugs for good. I still look back with fondness at the support I received here and would like to thank everybody again.
I suppose the message is that I know what it is like but I came through & so can you
I thought recently of the help & support that I received from this forum while going through my ordeal so though I would come back and give everybody an update & hopefully some inspiration.
I'm not going to go through all the details of the case again, just look at my old threads/posts to do that.
Unfortunately the strain of the allegation caused me and my partner to split up after 4 years - I became addicted to drugs and would do anything to take them behind her back, mainly weed but other stuff too, it kind of numbed me after such a traumatic time. I always though that when it was all over I would see things in a different light and everything would be OK but it didn't work like that. The battle continued after the trial and I think I suffered severe depression/PTSD but I never went to the doctors. My GF tried to support me but eventually my behaviour drove her away which I can understand.
We split up in May 2013 and I decided to get a clean break and move to Australia, something I had always dreamed of doing and I did it in June 2013. Despite still battling my emotions on and off I got a good job and got off the drugs for good. I still look back with fondness at the support I received here and would like to thank everybody again.
I suppose the message is that I know what it is like but I came through & so can you
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